I was in high school when Sex and the City premiered, and like many women of my generation and the generations that followed, that show taught me a lot about sex. I knew that gay men engaged in it, but I held on to some pretty old-school notions when it came to why straight women would do it. Whoever heard of Mrs. Up-the-Butt might reside.
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow. You have to remember that. Use your hands or a sex toy to play with them, so that she has the opportunity to get off, too.
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Women Who Stray. What is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex, anyway?
In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list. If you've already awkwardly asked her about it, it may seem like she has no interest, but you're just not approaching it properly. Sometimes, women are put off because they never tried it in the right setting or with someone they felt comfortable enough with.